relationship vs. rules

I walked in the kids bathroom last week and noticed the sign of "rules" on the bathroom counter. Our son Connor is wedged between our two daughters as our middle child. Apparently, he had not been meeting his sister's standards for bathroom etiquette (which I think includes using the restroom when they are not at home and NEVER EVER #2, that is for the another bathroom or the backyard).

If you can't read the sign his little sister Lily wrote, it reads:

Bathroom rolse (pretty sure she means "rules")

1. don't stink up the bathroom!
2. When you are going to the bathroom, turn on the fan!
4. Light a candle, not fubrez!
5. Don't clog up the toilet!
6. Wash your hands!
7. Please follow the rules.

You will notice that rule #3 must be understood, no need to list it.

Relationship vs. rules. God wants a relationship with us vs. us trying to follow a list of rules we think will make God happy. Think of a relationship you cherish? Do you want to spend time with that person? Do you make that person a priority even when you are busy? Do you enjoy getting to know that person better, ask questions, etc...

Do you ever look back to the beginning of your relationship with this special person? How you met? Where you were? Who introduced you to each other? How much closer you have grown over time? Were there times you did not feel as close to that person? Why? Do you celebrate an anniversary?

God wants a relationship with you. If you are new to your relationship with Christ, I encourage you to make a point to remember this time. If you are in a relationship with Christ that spans many years, I encourage you to reflect back. Do you know the date? Who was important in helping introduce you to Jesus? Have you thanked them lately? Did you thank them at the time? When did you feel the closest in your relationship with God?

I encourage all of us to be intentional in our relationship with Christ.

Oh yea, and light a candle, not fubrez!

Robb